Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Walls or Bridges?


People build walls because it's just piling up pieces of bricks, nothing much. Don't even have to worry about it crashing down, cause it hardly happens. People don't build bridges cause it takes time and effort to reach to the other end. You need 2 parties building the bridge in order for it to work. It one fails to, the bridge falls apart, comes crashing down, entirely. Moreover, you need to maintain the bridge regularly to make sure it doesn't rust and crash. So tell me, why would anyone even want to build bridges?- Weijie

Found it totally true, Weijie told me this after seeing the quote above. Why do we bother building bridges? Sometimes we get tired building it, maintaining it. It's such a chore! But we can't possibly all live in solitary? We all hurt people, people come and go. Cause there's no such thing as an entry ticket to a person's life. You can barge in when you like, and make your disappearing act as and when you please. Just wished that sometimes, you could tell if the person is here to stay or not. So you wouldn't have to waste time entertaining them, putting in feelings and effort, only to find them disappearing again.

Anyway, these few days have been tiring. I'm just so tired, God knows why. Ohwell, been hanging out with a friend whom i'm glad came back. I'm open to friends, i tend to give too much, tell too much, fall too hard. I need a god damn-ed bubble to myself. Seriously. Sometimes it gets scary when the past comes catching up with you, for the good and for the worse. But it sure felt nice when these memories fill us up. Makes me feel like we could go on indefinitely.

Shall go sleep soon and post more on another day. Been real lazy these days.

On a side note, really *cross finger* hope that Baby passes his driving! <3 !

1 comment:

Sengie said...

Hello, what talking you? So is good or bad :'( sobsobsob